i know i was supposed to update on our 44th but i was too busy bumming, and i guess i'm not gonna update after all HAHAHAA. its all in my multiply lah.
all i got to say is, i was late despite arranging to meet at jurong east..yat's really getting way better than me at being punctual (considering he stays at like, MIDDLE EARTH). so anyway because i was a bit late we didnt have time to eat at Pats or anything so we headed straight to science ctr and bought like 20 pc nuggets, fries and coke and we talk cock all the way, before the day actually started. i had an incredible time and i'm happy and contented.
subjective well being is more inclined towards quantity. keep doing things that make you happy rather than saving yourself for one big happy moment.
but screw positive psych, something we learnt from a film, the secret to happiness is.. simply having fun. and thats something i'm pretty sure we're good at, especially when we can literally laugh at the every single shit that passes us by, talking about anything and everything with such comfort and finding the joy in whatever the topic may be. from the start, yat's brought colour into my life and stopped my brain from chewing itself up. laughter is REALLY the best medicine.
C: I don't know why we do this. B: Come on, come with me. C: Ok, what are we doing here? B: We came to see that (they look at Arizona's patient that got better, everyone crowding around him with smiles on their faces) S: What? B: The joy. It comes around rarely, so rarely we forget it can happen. But that, that's why we do this. The joy.
and when things get sour, i suppose we're back to how things used to be pre-NS when we could talk everything out and not let it snowball for days. or giving me some time to cool off before talking it out (so i dont become fucking unreasonable and mentally-torturing kind of nasty) .seriously, ns is fucked up and im glad its over. i'm even more glad to know i made the right choice.
and after 44 months, my heart still races when i see him walking towards me from the other end of the train station with that huge smile plastered on his face and that familiar rhythm in his steps.
last night we went to nike's private event for the launching of the 3rd colourway of the yeezys. unfortunately we didnt win the ballotting..(i really shouldnt be blogging about this) but that also meant that we've got more pocket money in hand! i'm really sure that it all happened for some better reason. it was..an odd mix of an experience. still, we won some goodies and vouchers lol
pics in multiply btw
(calming each other from the nervewreck)
happy and dancing in the bus
sorry if there's too much mush in this post once in a while i need to remind myself that it's not so bad after all.
theres a lot of things im planning to do. i used to miss being depressed because i had an overflow of ideas and creativity although i keep the world at an arm's length but being happy makes me feel brave to take on the world and do all the things i'd love to do.
